Save My Seat

For Every First Daughter who is always the one in charge…

When was the last time someone planned something beautiful, and all you had to do was show up?

Save My Seat

20 seats only · Nov 6th, 2026 · Abuja

We asked first daughters what they hear all the time. They had a lot to say.

“You’re the firstborn. You should know better.”

Please stop acting like they handed me a manual when I was born.

“Your siblings are your responsibility.”

They’re my siblings, not my children. Sometimes I’d like to just be their sister.

“You are the strong one.”

Who said that? I’d like a word with them. I’m tired. I just got very good at hiding it.

“Nobody can do it like you.”

At this point, please let somebody else do it.

“But you’re the first daughter.”

Yes. I know. I was there when I was born.

You’ve heard at least three of these this month. You smiled through all of them.

You are always the one making things happen.

You learned to read the room before you learned to read well.

You’ve been the second mother, the peacekeeper, the example, the one who “will understand.”

You’ve been called strong so many times that nobody noticed when you were tired.

Everyone says “ask your sister” or “ask your first daughter,” and it’s always you they mean.

You never applied for the job. Nobody asked if you wanted it.

“Be strong” was never a choice you made. It was a role you were handed.

This time, something is happening for you.

Nobody sat you down and said, “You’ll be the second mother, the peacekeeper, the example and the one who understands everybody.” It was handed to you slowly, by people who love you and never asked if you wanted it.

So we planned a day where you don’t have to be any of that.

Just you, a table, and a whole day with your name on it..

WHAT THE BRUNCH IS

One Day That Is Entirely To Celebrate You

The Dear First Daughter Brunch takes the conversation out of the comment section and into a room, with your people and something good to eat.

What To Expect:

You arrive, and you’re welcomed.A warm check-in, a refreshment in your hand, music playing and a gift waiting for you. You haven’t done a thing yet.

You make your Reconnection Board.Guided prompts, cutouts, images and stationery, and a quiet hour to remember what you love, what you want more of, and what you’re ready to make room for again.

You make your own linen spray. Choose your mood: Rest. Fresh Start. Softness. Joy. Home. Main Character. Blend it, bottle it and name it. It’s yours.

You eat, laugh and meet your people.Good food, good music, photos, games if you want them, and other first born daughters who understand without a long explanation.

You’re celebrated. Surprises, gifts and a closing moment made for the first daughters in the room.

You leave with your board, your spray and your intention. So the feeling goes home with you.

What Your Seat Includes

Everything is taken care of. All you do is arrive. 

  • A welcome with refreshments, music and a gift
  • A guided Reconnection Board workshop, with everything provided
  • A personalised linen spray session, bottled and named by you
  • Food, music, photos and surprises throughout
  • A personalised welcome note, and an affirmation card
  • A quiet corner if you ever want a moment to yourself
  • A room of first daughters who understand you
  • An attendee-only 50% discount on the Dear First Daughter perfume set. It’s offered nowhere else, only to the women in the room.
Count Me In

This seat is for you if…

  • You’re the one everybody calls when something needs sorting
  • You love giving, and you’d love to be on the receiving end for a day
  • You can’t remember the last thing you did just for fun
  • You’ve been meaning to rest, but there’s always one more thing
  • You want to meet women who understand you without a long explanation
  • You love a beautiful day, a nice scent and something you can take home

Not a first daughter, but you love one? Bring her. Buy her seat. Tell her she’s seen and appreciated.

First daughters are already talking.

Before you say “maybe next time”

Good. You’ll walk in as a stranger and leave with new friends who understand you. You also won’t be the one organising anything. For once, someone else has done it.

The day is made for first daughters, and the room is full of them. If you love one, you’re welcome to bring her.

You always have people depending on you. That’s why you need this. Four hours, and the world will survive without you.

 It’s a creative, fun day, not therapy. Sharing is always voluntary. Make your board, make your spray, enjoy the moment.

 You don’t need to be. Prompts, materials and guidance are all provided. You just show up and enjoy it.

Linen sprays are pre-formulated, diluted and made for fabric, not skin, and the process is supervised. 

For once, let it be about you.

You don’t have to plan it, organise it or take care of anybody. Come and enjoy yourself, and remember there is so much more to you than everything you do for others.

Nov 6th, 2026 · Abuja · 20 seats
 Venue will be shared with confirmed guests.

I Deserve This